Happy New Year

Happiness is “to find out, that I was missed by Monika and MizBohemia”. I am here for you.
I have had a wonderful Christmas and much fodder for blogs. After reading some of my favorite blogs, I am a bit embarrassed, as I may sound to some, like a Pollyanna. Facts are facts, my happiness has no bounds at the moment. I ask those of you who like twists and turns to a story, to stay tuned, as no ones life is without strife. I am making a New Years resolution to be an honest blogger. In the spirit of honesty I am listing my other resolutions here.
#2 To study Danish, in order to be understood when I try to speak Danish......what the heck, let’s also add French. My French needs improvement judging from the looks on a French speaking person's face, when I utter, what I think of as French.
#3 To loose more weight.......Ok! I know this is not very original and I have failed miserably in the past.
#4 To exercise more..............Actually I don’t have a choice, as I will be required to do that,after my double knee replacement surgery. This will take place on January 18, 2006....I promised you strife :)
That seems to be it for now. I am sure I will come up with many more tonight, when I hear what resolutions my family is making. Then again they are perfect, and probably don’t need to make any (this is said with tongue firmly placed in cheek)
Happy New Year to you all. See you soon.
Saturday, December 10, 2005
The Amazing Brobro

My parents cat, found out that I had told a story about Brie. He was in a bit of a sniff about it, so I decided that I would give him one minute, out of his fifteen minutes of fame.
My parents had a friend staying with them over a weekend, 12 years ago and hey decided to take her to a lovely restaurant in the country. As they got out of the car in front of the restaurant, a very handsome young black and white cat came running towards them purring loudly, he followed them up to the door of the restaurant, then disappeared into a group of other cats. My parents were curious and asked about the cats, they were told that the black and white one had been dropped off in front of the restaurant and that the others were feral cats. They also said that they would be delighted, if Mother and Dad would take the little black and white one home, as he needs a good one. After dinner, the little one came up to them just as they exited the restaurant and was scooped up by my Father as he said “come with us little one, you now have a new home”
They named him Figaro, as he loves to sing, he does that with various types of purring, from soft to very loud, accentuated with an occasional meow. The first time I met him he came right to me and my Mother said to him “meet your sister” and I replied, barely heard above the loud purring, “hello Brobro”, since then that is what some of us call him. Well it is a lot better than Hub Cap :)(see Shadow in The Night)
Figaro aka Brobro is loved by everyone in the neighborhood. He waits at the school bus stop with the children in the morning. Sits with then neighbors in their yard, as they have their evening cocktail. Plays with and occasionally teases, the other cats. His relationship with the dogs in the neighborhood is unequal. One of the dogs is a mineature poodle and when they meet, Brobro goes on is back as an invitation to play. Next door is a young hunting dog mix, who spends her outside time tied up, Brobro will go just close enough to her, so that she will chase him, and run out of rope, at that time Brobro will stop and look back in triumph. When my Mother chats with a neighbor outside, Brobro will sit by her side, taking in the conversation, giving an occasional meow as a contribution. My Mother’s greatest fear, for all these years, has been, that someone will steal him, as he has been known to go into peoples houses for a snack and a snooze. Much to my Mother’s relieve, he always returns home.
He has his inside routines also. In the morning he is my Father's cat and requires stroking and being talked to before my Father picks up his newspaper to read.
In the evening, he will sit on my Mother's lap, while watching television or taking a nap. He goes in and out of the house all day and evening,and occasionally he will stay out longer that my Mother likes, she will then go and open the door and sing "Figaro, Figaro" I think he does this on purpose, just to hear my Mother sing.
At five o’clock every evening he has a cocktail, cocktail shrimp that is. Several weeks ago he lost interest in the shrimp, that and his labored breathing alerted Mother and Dad to something being wrong, come to find out that he has a heart condition. All is well now, as he is on medication and eating his shrimp again.
He has a good life my Brobro.
I could regale you with more stories about Brobro/Figaro, as there are many, however, I will save them for an other time.
Snow in New Jersey
We had our second snow of the season yesterday....first snow was a dusting and this one did not live up to expectations. We had been promised a good, stay at home, make a thick soup, light a fire and some candles, cozy under blankets, listen to Christmas music, kind of snow, instead we got a scant inch and freezing rain. All was not lost, as we decided to decorate the family room Christmas tree. When we finished decorating, as a reward, we did all of the above , it was ever so cozy.
This morning the sun is out and the snow and ice sparkles like so many diamonds. I use the Rhododendrons as my thermometer, today their leaves have unfurled, from their curled into a cylinder look they had yesterday. I fear that by tomorrow the snow will be gone again.....this seems to be our fate here in Southern New Jersey.
Here are some photos, taken yesterday and today.
....a Rose by any other name......Ornamental Cabbage

The bird feeder.The squirrels have brought it down to the ground three times. I have repaired it each time with Apoxie Sculpt, adding more and more design to it, one time this dragon and in front of it a baby dragon.

A photo taken of the Rododendron in the sun, this morning.
This morning the sun is out and the snow and ice sparkles like so many diamonds. I use the Rhododendrons as my thermometer, today their leaves have unfurled, from their curled into a cylinder look they had yesterday. I fear that by tomorrow the snow will be gone again.....this seems to be our fate here in Southern New Jersey.
Here are some photos, taken yesterday and today.
....a Rose by any other name......Ornamental Cabbage

The bird feeder.The squirrels have brought it down to the ground three times. I have repaired it each time with Apoxie Sculpt, adding more and more design to it, one time this dragon and in front of it a baby dragon.

A photo taken of the Rododendron in the sun, this morning.
Monday, December 05, 2005
Family Christmas

Yesterday, Ken (my husband) and I helped my parents decorate their Christmas Tree. As we unwrapped the decorations , I noticed that some were in their original gift boxes, with neatly written dated labels, describing, who had given them to my parents. Mother told us about the decorations she had bought and the reason she had bought them. Occasionally she would say, remember when you gave me this one, or I remember when you made this one. As we sipped on our first glass of eggnog this season, we shared our memories of Christmases past and rejoiced in the fact that we had all been together for Christmas every year, since Ken and I married, with the exception of two. The time my Father was in the hospital, although we spent most of our time there with him. And another Christmas, when just after graduating from college, our son spent Christmas in England, where he was working at the time. He called us three times Christmas Eve, the third time at exactly 6pm our time.
We start our celebration at 6pm Christmas Eve, by listening to a tape of the bells of Reykjavik, announcing the start of the season and a choir singing our favorite Icelandic hymn. We say Gledileg Jol (Merry Christmas) to each other and start the our Icelandic celebration. For dinner we have hangikjot (smoked lamb) potatoes and peas in white sauce, and red cabbage. For desert we have rice pudding with one almond, whoever gets the almond receives and extra gift......usually marzipan. Christmas day is our American version of Christmas, starting with a big breakfast and the Christmas stockings. We cook a big meal together, listen to music, read our new books, watch our favorite Christmas movie and end the day full of joy and to much good food. This year we will have a new member in our family, our son’s Danish sweet heart, and without doubt new traditions will be created. I love Christmas :)
